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The Sin You Do To Yourself

"Lets talk about sex baby, lets talk about you and me..." One thing that never goes out of style is sex. From both a scientific and biblical standpoint sex is for procreation. Before in vitro the only way to get pregnant was doing the do. But outside of that it is for the joining of two people together because back in Genesis God said, "it is not good for man to be alone". However, in Christiandom we teach that sex is nasty, dirty, vile thing to be done in the dark because we have to and never discussed which is foolishness. And we do our young ppl a great disservice when we do so. That's why as a youth leader I did this study. We get the secular version of sex all day but young people especially those in church need to know the truth of God's vision for this wonderful act. They need to understand why God said sex was for marriage only. Not because He wants to cramp your style but because He wants to save you from a bunch of heartache. Sex is a beaut

Forgiveness is for the Forgiver

I remember the day I learned forgiveness is for the forgiver. My dad had said something to me that had really hurt me and I held that hurt for a long time and it festered and built up until finally I was like, I’m gonna confront him about this.” So I wrote all my points down (because I’m a planner) and I called him and laid it all out and we left the call with what I thought was a mutual understanding but I hadn’t forgiven it. I thought I had. I convinced myself I had but God always knows how to test your so called growth. Any little thing my father did triggered me and brought me right back to that original hurt and all that pain would come flooding back. Then one day I hit my limit because my family just didn’t understand why I was so angry and I said dad knows why, I told him why and his face went blank and he looked at me and said when? Babay, I saw red! I said, that day that I called you and we talked for like 3 hrs. And he said, I don’t remember. In that moment I was so